This is Goodbye, Sort Of

Letting Go

This is not particularly easy for me to write, but I must. After almost 20 years of writing encouragement for Christian singles, I will soon be closing this website. This probably doesn’t come as a surprise since my writing here has been rather sporadic for quite some time. I’m a fiercely loyal person and in some ways […]

How to Overcome Rejection and Find True Significance

My True Worth

Overlooked. Ignored. Forgotten. Alone. We’ve all been there and perhaps are right now. Whether it’s an event we weren’t invited to, a relationship gone south, or walking out of church feeling ignored, the feelings of rejection and insignificance hurt. Sometimes those feelings come from simply being single and celibate in a world that glorifies being […]

Escaping the Blues

When we choose to praise God no matter our circumstances, we naturally begin to trust His goodness, and that trust leads to joy!

We’ve all experienced it. That feeling that ranges from simply feeling “blah” to feeling downright hopeless and depressed. It’s called the “blues.” “Nothing can make a trusting Christian blue,” I’ve heard somewhere along the way. The implication that if we’re feeling blue we’re not trusting God puts us all on the defensive a bit. After […]

Leaving a Legacy as a Single

Leaving a Legacy

It is an innate, God-given desire of every human being to be significant. We want to impact our world and those around us in important and positive ways. And we want that impact to be lasting, even to the point that it outlasts our earthly lives. This impact is often referred to as a legacy, […]